Sunday, August 14, 2005

The Prostate and Pleasure

If you’ve had the opportunity to read any guides
dealing with male sexuality, chances are you’ve heard
of the prostate gland. It produces some of the fluids
that are contained in the semen, giving the semen it’s
whitish color. One thing that you may not have heard
about the prostate is that it can be a source of great
sexual pleasure when massaged properly. Considered by
many to be the male equivalent of the G spot, a
prostate massage is easy to perform and your lover
will thank you for it. In this week’s tip we provide
you with some advice on how to reach this pleasure
trigger. Once the male is aroused, approaching
prostate stimulation is quite simple. Most men will be
delighted at the promise of greater pleasure so don’t
be worried about approaching the topic. Simply place
your index and middle finger on the perineum (the area
between the scrotum and anus). Now run your fingers up
and down forcefully pressing on this area as you go.
Be sure that your fingernails have been trimmed. Move
slowly and test different spots while asking your
partner which area feels best. Once you’ve found his
pressure point ask him how it feels as you apply more
and more pressure. Undoubtedly, you’ll be surprised at
how much pressure is desired. This intense massage is
best when accompanied by other forms of stimulation.
With some experience you’ll be able to stimulate this
area during fellatio and even intercourse.

If you are adventurous you may wish to use a more
direct approach to prostate stimulation. The prostate
lies just inside the front wall of the rectum and can
be manually stimulated through the anus. Whenever anal
stimulation is involved there are a few things you
should be cautious of. Always use a generous amount of
water-based lubricant and cover your finger with a
condom or finger cot. Make sure that your finger nails
have been cut and filed down to insure that the tender
rectal tissue does not become torn. Insert your
finger, very slowly, and curl it to face the front of
the male’s body. For those who have not engaged in
anal play before, please see previous postings on anal
sex before proceeding.

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